Three mistakes guys make for Valentine’s Day

Just Another Thought...

“Listen Up”.  Gentlemen, guys, fella’s; this is a romance notice. If you fail to reach your goal on Sunday (Valentine’s Day), it’s probably your fault. 

I hope that is clear enough. Sunday is Valentine’s Day and you are trying to survey long enough to get past it. True, Valentine’s Day is a day dedicated to romance or appearing romantic, don’t make it torture.  Millions of dollars are exchanging hands for the specific purpose of stimulating a desired reaction.  Flowers, candy’s, even surprises hug will likely get better result than the billions of dollars wasted by the Obama administration.

But, fear not. Here are three mistakes not to make this weekend.

·         Do not ignore the date.

·         Do not plan to hang out with your buddies.

·         Do not wait to the last minute.

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Bullet point 1; Valentine’s Day is designed to be a romance land mine.  If you forget or ignore the date, life 

becomes less pleasant; quickly.  Your spouse, significant other or whatever, want’s to be acknowledged for just a little while. If you come through, relationships can improve quickly.

Bullet pint 2; If you decide to hang out with your buddies, you may be inviting frost bite at home.  Unless your buddy or buddies are your romantic interest; take it to the one you are suppose to be involved with. Suggestion; go get ice cream or do something with the special one.

Bullet point 3; We have 24 hours a day, each. If you can’t arrange, remember, conclude or accidently identify Sunday as Valentine’s Day, you are asking for trouble.  Unless, trouble is your objective, waiting to the last minute to grab a gift means, you may not actually appreciate the other person. Don’t make that mistake. Do it now and save yourself another disagreement.

By the way, a quickly constructed line of poetry may not be a bad idea; if you ask the receiver to help you get it right.  Such gifts may or may not be in vogue. This is very risky.

If you find yourself totally stuck, ask your parents or your social network.  They are likely to be an open source of information, if you are sincere.